Skincare brands are always trying to sell us miracle cures to prevent wrinkles, sagging and aging of our skin, and some of their ingredients and gadgets can do some cool things. But truthfully, if there is chronically held tension in the muscles and fascia under the skin, no amount of skincare will prevent the changes to the face which that tension can cause.
But you don't read or hear about this often, maybe because effectively releasing facial tension isn’t something you can easily bottle up and sell?
My experience as an Acupuncturist, Herbalist and Holistic Skincare practitioner and expert for over 15 years is that facial massage- including Manual Lymphatic Drainage, Myofascial Release and Sculptural and Reconstructive techniques- is the most powerful modality I have encountered to prevent and unwind premature aging of the face.
How do we get chronic tension in our face?
Our facial muscles are special in that they are the only muscles in the body that attach to our skin to create expressions. Imagine how many small and large expressions those muscles in our faces make every day. Humans tend to habitually hold certain expressions, such as smiling, frowning with concentration, clenching our teeth or pursing our lips. Using those muscles so consistently causes them to tighten up, and the fascia around them to become tense as well.
When these structures tighten, it restricts blood and lymph flow through that area, which is what brings nutrients to feed the skin and muscles, what warms and loosens those muscles, and what clears out stagnation and build up of wastes and metabolic toxins. This creates a negative feedback loop that causes the tension to increase over time.
The strange thing is that we often don't feel this tension on a daily basis. It becomes so normal to us we don't even notice it.
How tension causes premature aging:
When our facial muscles and fascia are chronically tight, our skin becomes nutrient deficient. It needs specific nutrients to build and maintain collagen and elastin, which are the building blocks of healthy, full and elastic skin. Over time, this deficiency results in the skin becoming dehydrated, thinner, less resilient, and more vulnerable to processes that cause aging, such as sun and pollution damage. The more dehydrated and thin the skin becomes, the more it is prone to form wrinkles in areas of consistent use.
Also, the more our muscles stay tight, the more they pull on their attachments to the bones beneath them, giving the bones the message to stop building up new bone and to allow bone recession to occur. Bone recession is one of the most powerful drivers of facial aging. It causes our cheeks to sag, our under eyes to become more hollow and jowls and double chins to form.
What can I do to release tension in my face?
Facial Massage!
Facial Myofascial Release is incredible at unwinding the chronically held tension in both the muscles and fascia. Buccal or Intra-Oral Massage releases tightness from inside the mouth, jaw and cheeks, which is one of the best ways to relieve tension that transmits to the bones of the face. Sculptural Facelift Massage brings flow back to the facial tissues and gently releases tension throughout the face, scalp and neck.
These modalities very powerfully relieve chronic facial tension, but it is also very helpful to upkeep facial health with at home self-care practices, including facial self massage, facial Gua Sha and Cupping. Each of these works on muscle tension directly and on flushing blood through the tissues to re-establish flow, hydration and nutrition for the face.
If you are interested in learning these techniques, I teach facial massage and self care workshops that give you the knowledge and rituals for at home self-care. I also offer Cups, Gua Sha tools and oils, if you don't already have them.
Here is a link to my Gua Sha video tutorial that you can follow along with as a simple place to start.
If you'd like to experience facial massage with me, click below to learn more and schedule:
My Sculptural Facelift Massages include Myofascial Release, Sculptural and Reconstructive Massage, Manual Lymphatic Drainage and Buccal Massage.
If you'd like to sign up for my upcoming workshop on Facial Gua Sha and Holistic Facial Self Care (October 26th, 2025), you can register here:
https://breathetogetheryoga.com/facial-gua-sha-and-holistic-skin-self-care-workshop/
You are also welcome to schedule a 15 minute free consultation with me to learn more about the work I do here: